Musings

Dear Reader, I offer a post session ritual where I ask clients to compose a haiku to help integrate their sensual experience with me. I offer this exercise this because it provides psychological benefits, like increased mindfulness. Plus, I encourage you to write poetry, as it is a tantric lovemaking skill, one that all men wishing to attain a state of sensual mastery should consider. It’s just as important as that other skill of the tongue, haha.

Here are ten haiku and poems that are memorable. Oh, and I encourage using both traditional (5-7-5 syllables) and freestyle haiku.

this is my first time
I’ve never done this before
so fucking kinky Continue reading “Offering the fruit of my labor”

There’s a magic in Chinese calligraphy. It’s not just writing; it’s meditation in ink. The brushstrokes have a rhythm, a heartbeat. Here’s a scroll for you to consider: 余美常乐 (Yú Měi Cháng Lè).

To most people, it’s a poetic wish. But it’s really a secret love note for you!

Let me explain… stroke by stroke. Continue reading “A Lesson in Chinese”

Let’s talk about the wonderful world of fetishes, and two in particular—the sneeze fetish and cake sitting. Let’s start with the sneeze fetish. While most people reach for tissues, a surprisingly passionate community gets turned on when someone sneezes. And no, this isn’t a prank post just in time for spring allergies.

Continue reading “The Strange World of Sneeze Fetish and Cake Sitting”

In a surprising development, something called gooning was declared the “Fetish of the Year” by several adult industry trend analysts. While the term may sound unfamiliar to many, it’s been steadily gaining traction across secretive digital spaces exploring new dimensions of desire and self-expression. So why did it capture the digital zeitgeist?

Continue reading “The Rise of Gooning: “Fetish of the Year””