Musings

Fetishes are normally understood through several psychological theories, including Freudian theory, learning theory, and sexual imprinting. These theories suggest that fetishes may develop due to unresolved childhood conflicts, learned associations, or early childhood experiences.

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One of life’s sweetest pleasures is working through your bucket list. You know, stuff like traveling to Bali, seeing the Northern Lights, skydiving, eating at Noma or French Laundry, and other adventures. These are the places and experiences that bring meaning to life.

Now, I’m an expert on a different kind of bucket list, the one you won’t post anywhere because it’s NSFW. It’s a list of sensual experiences we secretly dream about, and few actually write down. Maybe it’s a threesome? Or maybe it’s experiencing a nuru massage, or a milking table, or getting pegged? This secret sensual bucket list can reveal what you need to find deeper happiness.

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Think about this – in the dark ages, if you went to a tavern, you ate whatever they were cooking. What’s more, you were likely grateful that there was anything to eat at all, and that there wasn’t a famine or a plague happening. But a king could eat pretty much whatever he wanted, to have a choice of dishes. Today, several centuries later, we all can eat like kings! A typical restaurant today has offers more food diversity and rare spices from faraway lands than a royal court would have enjoyed a few hundred years ago. However, even after hundreds of years of progress, people still fuck like peasants.

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I offer a lovely post session ritual where I ask clients to compose a haiku to help integrate their sensual experience with me. I do this because it provides psychological benefits, like enjoying greater mindfulness,  releasing suppressed emotions, and finally, enhancing your natural creativity. But more importantly, the ability to write beautiful poetry is a tantric lovemaking skill, one that all men wishing to attain a state of sensual mastery should consider. It’s just as important as that other skill of the tongue, haha. Plus, it’s fun!

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Hot stone massage is a therapeutic technique that has been practiced for centuries. The heat provided offers numerous benefits for recipients. For example, Thai masseuses regularly apply heat using herbal bags, and it’s done in jabkasai – a form of therapeutic genital massage developed in Northern Thailand – which is known to be quite effective. My approach is to use hot stone for a blend of therapeutic and sensual purpose.

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To achieve your financial and career goals, focus first on achieving a state of sexual abundance consciousness! Of course, sex is vital to create a life of greater fulfillment and happiness, but also it is sexual energy that powers the manifestation of everything else! Therefore, it’s so important to understand the nature of sexual energy and the underlying structure of desire to transform and change our lives for the better… to achieve and live our best lives.

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There are many psychological benefits provided when you engage in a practice I offer called “post session haiku”. I ask my tantra clients to compose haiku after a session with me, as this practice enables a more wholistic therapeutic experience.

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