Just as there are Five Love Languages (http://www.5lovelanguages.com), there are also corresponding sex languages. These correlate roughly to the five senses, with one additional “special” language that is a blend of proprioception with a flood of neurochemicals: the happy ending! Continue reading “The Six Sex Languages”
My Artists Statement
This client of mine had an extremely happy ending, and said that he thought I was an “erotic artist”. So I asked what that meant, and he offered to explain by writing for me a first pass at an “artist’s statement” for me to finish up and use. By the way, he’s a published author, so I was happy to receive such an offering. And so, here my artist’s statement for you to enjoy! Let me know if you think of some way to refine this:
I am an erotic artist and the medium I work with is the pleasurable human nervous system. My art focuses on the human sexual climax, to make it more intense and meaningful. My approach is distinct from techniques like “edge play” and klixen which focus more on extending the build up and playing “red light green light” games. My forte is achieving subtle control over the pressure and cadence of stimulation to enable a final release that achieves what I call an “orgasmic resonance”.
Psychosexual Roots of Fetishism
Fetishes are normally understood through several psychological theories, including Freudian theory, learning theory, and sexual imprinting. These theories suggest that fetishes may develop due to unresolved childhood conflicts, learned associations, or early childhood experiences.
How to Design a Sensual Bucket List
One of life’s sweetest pleasures is working through your bucket list. You know, stuff like traveling to Bali, seeing the Northern Lights, skydiving, eating at Noma or French Laundry, and other adventures. These are the places and experiences that bring meaning to life.
Now, I’m an expert on a different kind of bucket list, the one you won’t post anywhere because it’s NSFW. It’s a list of sensual experiences we secretly dream about, and few actually write down. Maybe it’s a threesome? Or maybe it’s experiencing a nuru massage, or a milking table, or getting pegged? This secret sensual bucket list can reveal what you need to find deeper happiness.
What is a Tantric Threesome?
Think about this – in the dark ages, if you went to a tavern, you ate whatever they were cooking. What’s more, you were likely grateful that there was anything to eat at all, and that there wasn’t a famine or a plague happening. But a king could eat pretty much whatever he wanted, to have a choice of dishes. Today, several centuries later, we all can eat like kings! A typical restaurant today has offers more food diversity and rare spices from faraway lands than a royal court would have enjoyed a few hundred years ago. However, even after hundreds of years of progress, people still fuck like peasants.
The Power of Sensual Poetry
I offer a lovely post session ritual where I ask clients to compose a haiku to help integrate their sensual experience with me. I do this because it provides psychological benefits, like enjoying greater mindfulness, releasing suppressed emotions, and finally, enhancing your natural creativity. But more importantly, the ability to write beautiful poetry is a tantric lovemaking skill, one that all men wishing to attain a state of sensual mastery should consider. It’s just as important as that other skill of the tongue, haha. Plus, it’s fun!
Hot Stone Klixen Therapy
Hot stone massage is a therapeutic technique that has been practiced for centuries. The heat provided offers numerous benefits for recipients. For example, Thai masseuses regularly apply heat using herbal bags, and it’s done in jabkasai – a form of therapeutic genital massage developed in Northern Thailand – which is known to be quite effective. My approach is to use hot stone for a blend of therapeutic and sensual purpose.
Continue reading “Hot Stone Klixen Therapy”Achieving Sexual Abundance Consciousness
To achieve your financial and career goals, focus first on achieving a state of sexual abundance consciousness! Of course, sex is vital to create a life of greater fulfillment and happiness, but also it is sexual energy that powers the manifestation of everything else! Therefore, it’s so important to understand the nature of sexual energy and the underlying structure of desire to transform and change our lives for the better… to achieve and live our best lives.
Friends with Psychological Benefits
There are many psychological benefits provided when you engage in a practice I offer called “post session haiku”. I ask my tantra clients to compose haiku after a session with me, as this practice enables a more wholistic therapeutic experience.
The EE-ticket Sensual Degustation
You may or may not know that my signature offering is the Eticket ride, a sensual tasting menu that combines a luxurious massage with a klixen appetizer, foot fetish play, nuru and prostate play – an opulent experience ending with strawberries, raw coconut water and chocolate truffles to gratify all the senses. So what I’ve just done is take that Eticket and turned it into something even more amazing … the EE-ticket sensual degustation.