Month: October 2025

Just as people express and receive love in different ways, they also experience sexual intimacy through unique “sex languages.” Understanding your partner’s primary sex language—and your own—can transform physical connection from routine to revelatory. So instead of the five love languages that are popular today,. there are six sex languages. They correspond to the senses and how our brains process information. Below are descriptions of these languages, along with examples and suggestions that illustrate how these intimate dialects show up in our sexual relationships.

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This client of mine had an extremely happy ending, and said that he thought I was an “erotic artist”. So I asked what that meant, and he offered to explain by writing for me a first pass at an “artist’s statement” for me to finish up and use. By the way, he’s a published author, so I was happy to receive such an offering. And so, here my artist’s statement for you to enjoy! Let me know if you think of some way to refine this:

I am an erotic artist and the medium I work with is the pleasurable human nervous system. My art focuses on the human sexual climax, to make it more intense and meaningful. My approach is distinct from techniques like “edge play” and klixen which focus more on extending the build up and playing “red light green light” games. My forte is achieving subtle control over the pressure and cadence of stimulation to enable a final release that achieves what I call an “orgasmic resonance”.

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