In the fast-paced, tech-driven Bay Area, where the pressure is on and commutes stretch longer than we can stand, self-care is a necessity for mental clarity and resilience. Enter “Premium Pleasures,” my hybrid service that blends the comfort of incall with the convenience of outcall to deliver world-class massage and somatic relief. No matter where you are in the Bay Area, my Delicious Tantra and Eticket offerings – considered holy grail FBSM experiences – are only a short drive away.
The Story of Xiāng Fēi: China’s Fragrant Concubine
The history of China’s imperial court is filled with tales of beautiful women and the emperors who loved them, but few stories are as intoxicating as the legend of Xiāng Fēi (香妃), the Fragrant Concubine. This figure, based on the historical Imperial Consort Rong (Róng Fēi), captivated the 18th-century Qianlong Emperor not just with her stunning looks, but with a reputedly irresistible, natural body scent that drove his devotion to unparalleled extremes.
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The Six Sex Languages
Just as people express and receive love in different ways, they also experience sexual intimacy through unique “sex languages.” Understanding your partner’s primary sex language—and your own—can transform physical connection from routine to revelatory. So instead of the five love languages that are popular today,. there are six sex languages. They correspond to the senses and how our brains process information. Below are descriptions of these languages, along with examples and suggestions that illustrate how these intimate dialects show up in our sexual relationships.
My Artists Statement
This client of mine had an extremely happy ending, and said that he thought I was an “erotic artist”. So I asked what that meant, and he offered to explain by writing for me a first pass at an “artist’s statement” for me to finish up and use. By the way, he’s a published author, so I was happy to receive such an offering. And so, here my artist’s statement for you to enjoy! Let me know if you think of some way to refine this:
I am an erotic artist and the medium I work with is the pleasurable human nervous system. My art focuses on the human sexual climax, to make it more intense and meaningful. My approach is distinct from techniques like “edge play” and klixen which focus more on extending the build up and playing “red light green light” games. My forte is achieving subtle control over the pressure and cadence of stimulation to enable a final release that achieves what I call an “orgasmic resonance”.
Introducing Delicious Tantra
I am an erotic artist and the creative medium I paint on is the pleasurable human nervous system. Your pleasurable nervous system. It’s my goal to create tapestries of ecstatic experiences and sensual bliss, that only you can enjoy. This art form requires developing a keen awareness of a man’s specific pleasure patterns and bliss languages. Also, it requires that the subject learns how to fully embrace pleasure. Often this requires letting go of what you think you want – usually the fulfillment of some fetish or worries about performance – and to apply your full awareness on surfing the tsunami of energy that will happen when you truly surrender. Once we access these higher states of pleasure and awareness, you will discover that they can be much more powerful than what you’ve experienced and expected all your life. This sensual discipline is what I’ve sought to perfect. My art is immersive, participatory, raw, transformational, and addresses the core of what it means to be alive.
The Power of Fetish
There are some who will shame men with a foot fetish. But for me, I see only the courage to be vulnerable when you share with me the gift of what you truly desire… and who you really are. Fetish is a doorway into the psyche – that we can use to unlock your greater happiness. And so, I thank you for sharing your fetish, which is a beautiful gift and something to be celebrated.
My Signature Offering
My signature offering is an immersive experience presented as a nouvelle sensuelle “tasting menu” that combines a luxury sensual massage with a klixen appetizer, foot fetish play, nuru and PM play – an opulent experience ending with strawberries, raw coconut water and chocolate truffles to gratify all the senses. Some say it feels like a kaseki dinner at a top Japanese restaurant, where the idea is that your mouth gets bored after 5 chews, so the chef provides a procession of small dishes to delight the palate continuously. The fee for this sensual degustation is $1200.
What is Nuru?
What is Nuru? It’s a deliciously erotic Asian massage technique in which one or more masseuses to rub our bodies against your body, in the nude and covered with an odorless and tasteless nuru massage gel, that is seaweed based. The word “nuru” is Japanese and means “slippery.”
During the massage, I will try to get the widest possible physical contact, and very strong and sensual tactile sensations are triggered that are designed to stimulate you. I have perfect creamy skin, which feels luscious, and I used to be a gymnast, so I can apply just the right amount of pressure. Too heavy, and the weight is oppressive. This is why clients rave about it!