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I was recently thinking about sexual positions that I love… and I realized that like Eskimos who have many words for snow, shouldn’t we have more words to describe the thing we enjoy most?
This led me to wonder whether there is a classier term than pegging? Or something more elevated than doggy?Finally, what about my Supreme Asian Cowgirl position, what should I call that? Continue reading “Naming new and fun sexual positions”
Premature ejaculation can affect confidence, intimacy, and emotional wellbeing—but it does not have to define your sex life. My unique tantric mindfulness program offers a practical, supportive approach to developing greater awareness and control during sexual activity.
Rather than focusing only on “lasting longer,” the program helps participants learn how to anchor awareness to physical sensations, breathing patterns, thoughts, and emotional triggers without judgment. Through guided mindfulness exercises, body-awareness practices, and communication tools, participants learn to pinpoint rising arousal earlier and respond with greater choice.
Many people report noticing meaningful changes within the first few sessions, such as reduced performance anxiety, improved awareness of arousal, and greater confidence communicating with a partner. Progress varies from person to person, and mindfulness is not a guaranteed cure—but it can be a valuable part of a broader treatment plan.
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If you’ve spent any time scrolling through Chinese social media—like Douyin or Xiaohongshu—you might have noticed something odd. Amidst the standard dance TikToks, cooking tutorials, and cat videos, there is an undeniable abundance of pretty feet.
And we’re not just talking about pedicure reviews. We’re talking about creators cooking street food with their feet, girls demanding their boyfriends submissively lick their feet in public, performing foot forward PR stunts at car shows and comic ons, or girls simply flexing their toes. Continue reading “Why Your Social Feed is Suddenly Obsessed with Pretty Asian Feet”
The history of China’s imperial court is filled with tales of beautiful women and the emperors who loved them, but few stories are as intoxicating as the legend of Xiāng Fēi (香妃), the Fragrant Concubine. This figure, based on the historical Imperial Consort Rong (Róng Fēi), captivated the 18th-century Qianlong Emperor not just with her stunning looks, but with a reputedly irresistible, natural body scent that drove his devotion to unparalleled extremes.
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Just as people express and receive love in different ways, they also experience sexual intimacy through unique “sex languages.” Understanding your partner’s primary sex language—and your own—can transform physical connection from routine to revelatory. So instead of the five love languages that are popular today,. there are six sex languages. They correspond to the senses and how our brains process information. Below are descriptions of these languages, along with examples and suggestions that illustrate how these intimate dialects show up in our sexual relationships.
Fetishes are normally understood through several psychological theories, including Freudian theory, learning theory, and sexual imprinting. These theories suggest that fetishes may develop due to unresolved childhood conflicts, learned associations, or early childhood experiences.
One of life’s sweetest pleasures is working through your bucket list. You know, stuff like traveling to Bali, seeing the Northern Lights, skydiving, eating at Noma or French Laundry, and other adventures. These are the places and experiences that bring meaning to life.
Now, I’m an expert on a different kind of bucket list, the one you won’t post anywhere because it’s NSFW. It’s a list of sensual experiences we secretly dream about, and few actually write down. Maybe it’s a threesome? Or maybe it’s experiencing a nuru massage, or a milking table, or getting pegged? This secret sensual bucket list can reveal what you need to find deeper happiness.
I offer a lovely post session ritual where I ask clients to compose a haiku to help integrate their sensual experience with me. I do this because it provides psychological benefits, like enjoying greater mindfulness, releasing suppressed emotions, and finally, enhancing your natural creativity. But more importantly, the ability to write beautiful poetry is a tantric lovemaking skill, one that all men wishing to attain a state of sensual mastery should consider. It’s just as important as that other skill of the tongue, haha. Plus, it’s fun!
To achieve your financial and career goals, focus first on achieving a state of sexual abundance consciousness! Of course, sex is vital to create a life of greater fulfillment and happiness, but also it is sexual energy that powers the manifestation of everything else! Therefore, it’s so important to understand the nature of sexual energy and the underlying structure of desire to transform and change our lives for the better… to achieve and live our best lives.
There are many psychological benefits provided when you engage in a practice I offer called “post session haiku”. I ask my tantra clients to compose haiku after a session with me, as this practice enables a more wholistic therapeutic experience.